November 17, 2018

I've been resistant to call my self a mother as my arms remain empty, in fact, I had never considered it a proper title fit for me, as I carried the scars of miscarriages or my possible infertility. Im sure many of you can relate? And yet, after a journey into and thro...

November 17, 2018

I was at a party last night and met a woman in her 40’s without children. In my new openness to talk about being childless, I gently asked her more about her story. She told me freely that her heart will never fully heal from not having had a child; but that she made c...

July 2, 2018

I have done something wrong 

I am unworthy to be a mother 

I don't deserve love

I am not enough

I am a failure 

It is common for many women in grief to look for the reason behind the loss; some women turn to themselves to blame, and some turn to God or the Universe. This ex...

June 2, 2018

I found, with my own life it was very rare that I was able to tell the story of my womb grief from beginning to end. There can be a feeling of social taboo, a sense of shame and even a belief that your story is not important. Acknowledging your dreams, your conception,...

May 1, 2018

The intention in exploring the early memories attached to your dreams and pregnancies is an opportunity to remember and honour your full story, your dream and the feelings at the time of your conception. Conception is defined as conceiving a child, the forming or devis...

April 2, 2018

To name: to call upon, to identify, to honour and to exist… the call to love

My Spirit Baby is one name gifted to the unborn child. The intention behind this name is to call to the unborn child as a continued presence in our lives and not something to discard, get over,...

March 2, 2018

Grief is a journey with no determined end. It is not a feeling that we are meant to get over, or fix, it is a complex process of lost love that holds hands with shock, denial, anger, jealousy, bargaining, depression, loneliness, shame, and self-blame. But it is not def...

February 2, 2018

You and I are not the first women to lose a pregnancy, the pain, fear, heartache and loss we have felt, are similar to many women who have experienced womb grief before us. Our stories however, are unique. The feelings of grief are our own personal experience bound up...

March 21, 2017

 I can still see her beautiful smile as an elder friend placed a slice of local salmon on my plate, "Oh Adria, it's so nice to see you with all of these kids, you're such a natural."

I told her how easy it is when they were your best friends children, and smiled the th...

March 21, 2017

The offer

May 2016

A clairvoyant told me, "there is something on offer around the corner from a dark haired man that may change my life course. I do see you freeing yourself up for a lot of travel.”

I thanked her, and told her that I was feeling very settled in my life in...

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